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Tickle Your Fancy Book TK1000
This clearly written "how-to" books features expert instruction for female self-pleasuring, including clitoral G-spot stimulation, shower-play and more. More than 30 masturbation techniques and 60 illustrations will help you unleash your full pleasure potential.
$15.54
A Pumper's Handbook - Enlarging Your Penis SE5010001
A Pumper's Handbook is a comprehensive guide to the methodology of pump use. Forward by world renowned expert, Dr. Joel Kaplan. A comprehensive guide to the methodology of pump use. This handbook contains 65 pages. All in Color.
$14.85
Joy of Erotic Massage 71011
Instructional dvd on erotic massage for couples.
$16.00
Healing Sex B00033
Healing Sex is the encouraging, sex-positive guide for all women survivors of sexual assault— heterosexual, bisexual, lesbian, coupled, and single— who want to delight in their own sexuality. While most books on the topic broach sexuality to reassure women that it`s all right to say "no" to unwanted sex, Healing Sex encourages women to learn how to say "yes"— to their own desires and on their own terms. A new introduction explores developments in the field of trauma and the role of the body as an essential place of change, learning, and transformation. Discover how you “checked out” to survive and how you can “check in” now for healing and your own sexual expression. Discover practical tools for healing through triggers while enjoying all the delights and complexities of a fully-embodied sex life. Don’t settle for less than you want! Grant yourself permission to cultivate pleasure, sexual delight, and love.
$25.95
Partners in Passion 36574
Not just another sexual guidebook, Partners in Passion is a unique, thorough, controversial, and life-changing approach for couples who long to create and sustain a deep, intimate bond. Most of us long for an intimate relationship, and though texting and emailing throughout the day may keep us superficially connected and feeling momentarily sexy, it ultimately cannot create the kind of intimacy necessary to sustain a deep, fulfilling and lasting partnership. And, with the divorce rate reaching a staggering 50% in 2013, and the breakup rate among unmarried long-term couples even higher, it appears the more we tweet, the more disconnected we become. Authors Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson have devoted their lives to studying and teaching the art of creating intimacy and to showing couples how to maintain and sustain exciting relationships. "Partners in Passion" themselves, they are critically acclaimed collaborators as well as respected and highly sought after teachers, who have traveled the world sharing their insights, knowledge, and secrets-helping thousands of people to create enduring and sexually satisfying relationships. So many of us believe that new is better, hotter, and more intense, but love at first sight isn't really love; it's chemistry. Developing the connections and intimacy that everyone craves takes time and skill. Michaels and Johnson provide readers with a fun, step-by-step, phase-by-phase guide to help them discover true, deep, loving, and romantically sexual relationships that will last for decades. Comprehensive and inclusive, Partners in Passion is highly original and provocative, drawing on a variety of sources: cutting-edge science, psychology, the authors' background in Tantra, and their personal experiences as teachers and as a couple. It focuses on sex as fundamentally relational and suggests that becoming skilled at connecting is far more important than technique. It questions received wisdom about what constitutes a good relationship-for example that getting one's needs met is paramount and that monogamy is natural and optimal. Partners in Passion proposes an alternative model founded on mutuality, a collaborative mindset, empathy, and transparency. This approach invites couples to design their own relationships and to choose consciously. It is replete with how-to suggestions and exercises, fortified by interviews with couples from diverse backgrounds, relationship styles, and orientations who are enjoying erotically vibrant partnerships. It includes an extensive resource guide that covers everything from health to erotica to alternative relationship styles, with links to many of today's leading sexuality and relationship educators. With insight and clarity, Michaels and Johnson explore: A radically original perspective on what it means to be in a pair-bonded relationship Why communication is important but talking is overrated Why you shouldn't "work" on your relationship but should tend to it as a living entity instead Why unconscious monogamy can be damaging and why monogamy of any kind is not necessarily the cornerstone of a healthy relationship How to balance the need for intimacy with the need for personal freedom How sexual adventuring can strengthen your bond How kink can be a tool for building intimacy How to deal with discrepancies, distractions, and disruptions How to maintain a vibrant erotic connection throughout your lives
$21.95
Jessica Drake's Guide to Wicked Sex: Female Masterbation 70158
Unlock the big O with the help of this guide to Female Masturbation. This DVD contains honest interviews, a "User's Guide to Seducing Yourself" and three explicit solo scenes with REAL orgasms.
$30.00
Hardness Factor 3359
Hard is good, harder is better... for your health, your libido, your life. Such is the provocative premise behind Dr. Steven Lamm`s The Hardness Factor, a groundbreaking book that will change the way men live and love. The Hardness Factor measures male health through the quality of an erection - perhaps the greatest male motivator for better living (more so than fear of cancer, heart attack, or stroke). The Hardness Factor asks, Can men be hard and in shape for sex their entire lives? The answer is, absolutely. Here for the first time are scientific, evidence bases regimens - emphasizing nutrition, supplements, and exercise - to increase the erectile quality. Dr. Steven Lamm`s Ten Promises 1. You will improve your hardness in as little as four days. 2. You will achieve optimal hardness within six weeks. 3. You will maintain peak sexual performance indefinitely. 4. You will enjoy better orgasms 5. You will be in the best shape of your life. 6. You will look and feel years younger. 7. You will jump-start your libido. 8. You will protect the body`s other vital organs - the heart and the brain. 9. You will enhance you partner`s sexual involvement and satisfaction. 10. You will be healthier and, with any luck, live longer.
$16.95
Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women 34861
Everything you need to understand women`s orgasms—what works, what doesn`t and why: There are tons of books filled with advice about orgasms, but many women find their relentless cheerleading lacks an honest discussion of their real needs. Mikaya Heart changes all that. The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women is a forthright and comprehensive exploration of female sexuality. Normalizing all women`s experiences, Mikaya Heart provides the information, permission and support women need to enhance their own fulfillment.
$17.95
Red Hot Touch Genital Massage for Men 15.00
Instructional DVD on male genital massage.
$30.00
When Sex hurts 33918
Did you know that 20 million women suffer from painful intercourse? Did you know that as many as 40% of those women will not seek medical care? Often going undiscussed or misdiagnosed, painful sex is a condition that most medical professionals are still in the dark about. Now, three experts in the field of sexual pain and women’s sexual health address the myths, realities and stereotypes of sexual pain in this easy to read book that will guide readers to the help and support that they need most. Topics include: • Causes of sexual pain • Choosing the proper doctor • Rebuilding sexual intimacy • Tips for understanding sexual pain Also featuring groundbreaking research and stories from women that have suffered, and recovered from this difficult disorder, When Sex Hurts, provides the tools to stop hurting and start healing.
$16.00
Bedded Bliss 32424
Bedded Bliss: A Couple's Guide to Lust Ever After takes a peek behind the closed doors of married and committed couples to find out what makes long-term lust last. Award-winning author and editor Kristina Wright curates a collection of sexy and powerful erotic fiction and memoir from some of the top authors in the genre, all of whom are in committed relationships ranging from five to over thirty years. Wright contributes her own thoughtful insights and advice gleaned from her twenty-two year marriage and successful career tapping into the erotic fantasies of readers. Bedded Bliss entertains, educates and encourages couples to remember the reasons they fell in love and lust. Enjoy the stories here and then write your own story together, whether it's in ink on the page or in whispers between the sheets.
$15.95
Sex Again B00122
Combining Eastern wisdom and techniques with a Western medical perspective, Jill Blakeway—called a “fertility goddess” by The New York Times for her bestseller, Making Babies—shows women how to revive their libidos and rekindle their sex lives. Assessments and quizzes help the reader place herself and her partner on the scale of yin and yang. Jill then shows how to keep these opposites—passive/active, accepting/initiating, cool/hot—in correct balance. Specific meditations and breathing techniques help unblock qi (pronounced chee), the essential energy that flows through the body. There are chapters on specific elements of love-making: massage, kissing, positions, orgasms—having them, holding them, making them last. And finally, “Sex in Six,” a six-week program of reclaiming an active, satisfying, and possibly better-than-ever-before sex life. The book is full of case studies, fun “Do It Now” suggestions, and “He Said” boxes written by the author’s husband and medical partner, Noah Rubinstein. It addresses common sexual dysfunctions, healthy hormones, and herbal remedies. Sex Again provides a path to balance and emotional wisdom—individually and as a couple.
$16.95
Miss Vera's Cross-Dress for Success 3881
Veronica Vera, creator and founder of the world's first cross-dressing academy, knows that a host of goods and services for the girl with something extra are just a mouse click away. But who wants to spend hours surfing the internet? Fear no more: Miss Vera has done the legwork, combing the internet for irresistible and fun fashions, friendly social groups, and time-tested beauty tips for cross-dressers and trannies of every stripe. Whether you're dressing up for Halloween or choosing a new lifestyle, let Miss Vera be your guide. Overwhelming demand brought this book back into print. Written with sparkling wit, filled with photographs and dozens of real life stories, this book offers tips, tales and teachings from the dean of the World's First Cross-Dressing Academy.
$14.00
Red Hot Touch: Orgasmic Massage 78572
One hot massage DVD! Learn about the location of erogenous zones, how to bring on orgasmic sensations, ways to connect deeper with a partner, positions to try in bed or on the massage table, how to fully receive pleasure through movement and breathing and the quality of touch and presence.
$30.00
Fire on the Mountain 78314
A 3 hour how to on male genital massage.
$34.00
Healing Painful Sex 32585
Millions of women suffer from sexual and pelvic pain in America today, yet it is frequently misdiagnosed—or not diagnosed at all.In Healing Painful Sex, Deborah Coady, MD and Nancy Fish use their combined professional expertise as a doctor and therapist who specialize in sexual pain to provide readers with an understanding of its many causes and how to treat them, from both a physical and psychological standpoint. Organized into three parts—naming the problem, getting a diagnosis, and overcoming pain—Healing Painful Sex includes medical checklists, illustrations, vignettes based on interviews with women and their healthcare professionals, treatment options, and guidance for moving forward after healing. Coady and Fish speak honestly and directly to sexual pain sufferers’ experiences, helping them address the problem of chronic pain, understand and prevent misdiagnoses, define medical terms and conditions, and regain sexual joy. Comprehensive, multi-dimensional, and deeply insightful, Healing Painful Sex offers women the tools to successfully take on the many challenges of sexual pain and move toward a healthy, happy future.
$18.00
Mating in Captivity 40986
Mating in Captivity offers a new and interesting take on intimacy and sex and invites the reader to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire while explaining what it takes to bring lust home. Through case studies and discussion, the author, Esther Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that can transform the way we live and love.
$13.99
The Book of Love 40452
A practical, hands-on celebration of what it means to be in love, have the best sex ever, share a new level of intimacy, and explore and enjoy every aspect of being a couple. Bestselling sex therapist Laura Berman has years of experience in helping couples build and strengthen their bond. Here she reveals how you can add spontaneity and passion to your relationship, find out and provide what each of you wants, and keep your sex life fresh, vibrant and exciting. For all couples who want to communicate, connect and have a happy, stable, fun-filled future together.
$18.95
Big Big Love 33463
Big Big Love is the only one-stop-shopping handbook on relationships, sexuality, and big sexy confidence for people of all genders, sizes, and sexual orientations who know that a fantastic love life doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the number on the bathroom scale. Covering everything from dating to sex toys to getting on top, this guide also features tips on navigating tricky topics like making peace with your belly, coping with weight-related prejudice, and creating a happy, satisfying sex life in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. This freshly illustrated update of the 2000 cult classic features new interviews with body-acceptance activists, health coaches, psychologists, and more, plus hundreds of quotes from fat folks and those who love them selected from a survey conducted exclusively for the book. From taking your clothes off to BDSM to fat admiration to tips for successful long-term relationships, Big Big Love's savvy, sane advice can help you tackle every hot-button issue you may confront in the bedroom and in love.
$15.99
Ageless Desire 70168
Ageless Desire features three truly committed couples, all over the age of fifty who continue to experience passionate and fulfilling sexual relations. They enjoy kissing, caressing, oral-genital pleasuring, vaginal and when desired, anal intercourse. In the first demonstration, Rachael and Max, both busy executives, treat themselves to a romantic evening of champagne, candlelight and playful tease with his expert touch giving her a great orgasm. Then, Shell and Richard show a morning ritual of gentle kisses, caresses and soft penis stimulation which allows them to experience multiple orgasms. And, with our third couple Kim and Stuart, she uses an ingenious method to show her desire, which leads to a variety of lovemaking positions for, oral, genital and anal intercourse. Ageless Desire shows that, with imagination and knowledge, sex can continue to be wild and wonderful as we advance in years. This program offers both men and women information, suggestions and erotic imagery to achieve the ultimate pleasures for their entire life.
$30.00
Guide to Getting it On 335
With 6 new chapters, a dozen new illustrations and more than 2,400 updates, this new edition of the category-leading book Guide to Getting It On continues to earn its place as America`s most up-to-date and informative book about sex. Written with the goal of offering updated and up to the minute information for today’s 18-34 year olds written specifically for them. This updated classic is a must have for any sexual information library or staff library!
$28.95
Becoming Orgasmic: A sexual and personal growth program. 3217
Are you shy or self-conscious when it comes to sex? Do you want to learn how to enhance the pleasure you derive from sex? The revised and expanded edition of Becoming Orgasmic provides a program designed to help anyone overcome the myriad obstacles to complete sexual satisfaction. Whether married, separated, divorced, or widowed, the program presented here will help you feel comfortable with yourself, your ideas about sex, and help with personal growth. This is one of the best books for teaching women to orgasm. This book combined with a Hitachi vibrator is a guaranteed orgasm!
$16.99
The Return of Desire 35457
Drawing on three decades of experience as a sex therapist and sex researcher, Dr. Gina Ogden shows you how to: Open up to the four energies that spark desire. Create heart-to-heart communication with your partner. Transcend guilt, shame, and "good-girls-don`t" messages. Help heal the sexual wounds of abuse, addiction, affairs, and low self-esteem. Enjoy sexual pleasure throughout your life span...from new love, to parenthood, and into your golden years.
$17.95
Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure B00025
The P-spot is today’s hottest topic in male sexuality. Just as G-spot exploration forever transformed many women’s experience of orgasm, growing numbers of men are enhancing their sex lives with P-spot arousal and orgasm. The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure, written by sex educators Charlie Glickman, PhD and Aislinn Emirzian, offers men erotic pleasure beyond what they imagined possible. This indispensable manual to P-spot pleasure covers both solo and partner play. Whether you are a first-time adventurer or a seasoned practitioner, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure will support and guide your exploration of this powerful source of sexual fulfillment.
$17.95